FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
ETIQUETTE, FINER POINTS AND SUMMARY
BOOKING POLICY
→ HOW CAN I BOOK A SESSION WITH YOU?
→ DO YOU TAKE SAME DAY/LAST MINUTE BOOKINGS?
→ I HAVE SOME ADDITIONAL QUESTIONS TO ASK, CAN I CONTACT YOU VIA WHATSAPP OR E-MAIL?
→ WHAT KIND OF PEOPLE ARE YOUR CLIENTS?
→ DO YOU SCREEN YOUR CLIENTS?
Sessions with me are by appointment only.
I have limited availability, especially throughout the summer.
To insure your session on a day and time to your liking, please make the booking fair in advance (couple of days or even weeks). If you know you are going to be in the city in couple of months, please check on my calendar at the Online Booking Form or reach me out directly.
Last minute bookings are rare, particularly if we have not previously met, but occasionally possible, so feel free to ask. If you would like to meet at short notice, please contact me asap via WhatsApp - that's the fastest way to get my answer although please bear in mind that outside the Bardot's world I lead a fairly busy life and my phone is not glued to my hand, so be patient when I don't respond immediately.
For a proper and official booking please use the ONLINE BOOKING FORM.
With no exceptions; the only way how do I treat your booking seriously is through out this form. Be warned, booking forms which don't include all the information I ask for will be swiftly sent to the bottom of my to-do list, which is a terrible place to be.
Yes, you can first contact me via WhatsApp or an E-mail address to ask any questions regarded to the experience or the meeting.
Yet, for an official booking, you'll be asked to fill in the Online Booking Form afterwards.
Please do not call me. Ever. I won't pick it up. The WhatsApp number works only for written conversations and only with the WhatsApp application.
If you text me on WhatsApp messages like; "Hi babe. How much? When? Time today?"
I block you right away; once you end up on my BLACK LIST, there is no way to get back from there.
You would not make a booking to your barber in this way so don't do it with me please. It is very disrespectful and you are not a type of client that my service is here for. I do choose who I spend my time with and who I want to share my energy and this very intimate experience with, so keep this in mind while filling in the Booking Form.
Primarily, my clients are all men who seeks for something profound, loving, nurturing, intimate and safe.
I do not discriminate on the basis of race, nationality or age, however I do ask these information about my clients, as well as I have provided you with same details about me at my BIO. Everyone who is respectful, polite, well-behaved and with a true call for my services, is very welcome.
The information I need for screening depends on where the session takes place. In Finland everything I need for screening is included in the Booking Form; that is a bare minimum, and just as you would not invite unknown strangers in to your private home who have not been vetted/screened or have an online presence, neither do I. Screening in Finland and Oslo is mild. Screening out of Finland; London and New York City requires a specific Personal Identification, that is going to be available once I have a travel plan to visit those cities. My screening and deposit process is non-negotiable and is in place so I can both fully commit to our meeting and feel comfortable during our time together.
If we have met already and you have become a member of my Private Circle, you can contact me directly via WhatsApp with no need of filling in the Booking Form.
DEPOSITS
I protect my calendar from scoundrels by asking for a deposit. This allows me to commit fully to my sessions in advance, knowing that they are firmly fixed in both our diaries. As such, around 25% deposit is required to confirm your booking in the city of Helsinki.
Bookings out of Helsinki (in Finland) requires a 50% deposit. Bookings out of Finland requires to be paid fully in advance.
Please bear in mind that until I've received your deposit, I don't treat your booking as confirmed.
Deposits are paid via bank transfer to my corporate Finnish business account. The remain amount can be paid in cash on the day of the meeting before the session starts. In case you would prefer to pay the whole amount via bank transfer, full amount must hit my account before the session starts.
Private Circle members are not obligated to provide with deposits at all; for Helsinki bookings only.
CANCELLATION POLICY
No-one likes to cancel, but emergencies sometimes happen. I very much understand that schedules do change, so if you need to cancel an appointment with me, please try and do so with as much advance notice as possible. Deposits are non-refundable but will be transferred towards another date booked within three months if you need to cancel. If you cancel less than 24 hours (a 12 hours cancelation policy applies for Private Circle members) before our meeting your deposit will be taken as a cancelation fee. We are living in strange times, if you are changing our appointment last minute due COVID exposure, I will hold on to your deposit for a future date.
It is extremely rare that I cancel bookings. However, if I must do so, I will contact you and suggest a few alternative dates. If none of these work, I will refund any amount paid toward the booking using bank transfer within 48 hours. If I must cancel due to you displaying unsafe behaviour, any money paid toward the booking will not be refunded.
IMPORTANT: if you have purchased a session for a Special Offer deal that has been offered to you via Newsletter, it must be paid in full and in case of cancelling in less than 24 hours before our meeting the whole paid amount will be taken as a cancelation fee or transferred towards another date booked within three months.
Without this, I’m afraid I won’t be able to make another booking with you. But also I am a human, so please, try to contact me asap and we can always try to figure things out without stress as I do believe you've reached me out for time of relaxation on the first place.
PRICING
→ WHY DOES YOUR SERVICE COST SO MUCH? ISN'T IT CHEAPER TO VISIT A SEXUAL WORKER AND GET „ALL IN“?
→ CAN I GET YOUR MASSAGE CHEAPER/DISCOUNTED?
→ DO YOU OFFER AN EXCLUSIVE DEALS FOR YOUR REGULAR CLIENTS?
→ HOW CAN I BECOME A MEMBER OF YOUR PRIVATE CIRCLE?
→ WILL I GET A RECEIPT?
Three words; quality over quantity.
I do realize that my services are on the more expensive side of the scale and thus not available to everyone. I am truly appreciative of those individuals, that are seeking quality and very personal, intimate experience from gifted, empathetic hands. It might sound like a cliché, but time is money and the fact, that I have decided to spent mine with you means that I believe that you can appreciate something real and special.
My service is not cheap as I simply do not offer cheap service. But you can get very special offers/deals with me!
If you are the first time client and you haven't purchased any of my previous special offer, please respect the price for my service and do not ask me for a discount. My prices are non-negotiable and it is very impolite to ask for a discount. I am not a Thai taxi driver and this is not a Moroccan market. As already mentioned in this paragraph; if the „Happy End“ massage is all you are looking for, I can save you a lot of money and time, by recommending you to try to find someone else who gives you the „Happy End“ massage for a quarter of what is the cost of my service. There are plenty of lovely providers out there. You can also get an „all inclusive service“ in Helsinki for much cheaper than for a session with me.
Many of my clients become regulars. For those who become part of my Private Circle (after purchasing 5 sessions with me you are automatically becoming a member of the Private Circle), I often offer a preferential price based on the level of commitment one has to see me. You can also subscribe to my Newsletter and enjoy some of occasional special offers send a few times a year. You can also purchase one of the advantageous package (3 and 5 sessions available). International and the CITY TOUR rates have adjustments to include my costs for travel, screening (UK and USA) and dispensation for additional risks.
I do participate in the Finnish TAX system and prices are with 10% VAT included (sale of works of art by the artist).
I'll be invoicing you with my Toiminimi and the Y-tunnus is provided on each issued invoice.
Please bear on mind, each invoice is issued on your name I've been provided with and the name will be seen by my accountant.
GIFTS, TIPS, PATRONAGE & REVIEWS
→ CAN I GIVE YOU A TIP?
→ CAN I BUY YOU A GIFT?
→ CAN I WRITE YOU A REVIEW?
→ IS THERE ANOTHER WAY TO SUPPORT YOU OTHER THAN BUYING A SESSION WITH YOU?
The contribution that I ask for is reasonably set, to cover my expenses, taxes and indicates the way I value myself and my time. As such, tips and gifts are never expected, but always a lovely way to say: „Thank you. I appreciate you and I have truly enjoyed the session with you.“ Fresh flowers, a good bottle of wine or champagne, a bag of freshly roasted coffee beans, scented candles, a SPA voucher, or maybe a Marimekko, Artek or Ruohonjuuri gift card; you won’t ever make a mistake. Smile on my face guaranteed and you will make me feel cared for too.
The other way how you can generously show your satisfaction is by a written testimony for others who are still considering the visit. To let it be a bit mysterious to the new ones, please do not reveal the session in details, rather more how you felt during it, afterwards and how you have enjoyed your time with me. I would be thrilled if you wished to email me a clean and respectful paragraph or two in order to update my testimonials page. Paragraphs in all languages are welcome and will truly makes me happy. The easiest way to send me a review can be done through the TESTIMONY FORM.Thank you very much.
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HYGIENE
You'll be ask to freshen up upon arrival. Take the shower as an INITIAL RITUAL to start the session with. Leave all your stress and worries behind the bathroom door and enjoy a hot shower that helps you to relax not your muscles only but mind too. Please avoid to wash your hair so the futon and pillow won't soak up by the water.
In the new world order, cleansing is not just a ritual but a necessity so please do wash your hands carefully. I'm quite sensitive to scents, so please bear that on mind and if you can, do not wear any perfume before our meeting, do not smoke and do not drink any alcohol. I do love the smell of coffee but please do avoid to drink anything that contains caffeine due to its effect.
As previously mentioned in this paragraph; toiletries and bath linen such towels or a bathrobe will be provided. All bedsheets and bath linen are washed on 60°C after each session with hypoallergenic washing detergent and disinfect with ironing. The place itself is always fully disinfected after each session.
HEALTH POLICY & COVID-19
Please check on this important disclaimer if you haven't yet
Make sure prior to the meeting that you feel 100% healthy (no cold/running nose especially, no fever).
Please do not to forget to inform me about your allergies prior to the meeting to avoid any kind of irritation or an allergic reactions, especially if you are allergic to hay or incenses.
You are kindly asked to:
→ Do wash your hands properly, with warm water upon arrival.
→ Please, it's your obligation to contact me immediately within 10 days after our meeting if you start feeling sick so I could check on me and stop accepting other clients. Please let me know, if you want me to inform you if I turn Covid Positive within 10 days after our meeting and confirm me where can I contact you safely.
The meeting take place on your own risk. So do on mine.
LATEST UPDATE: I was Covid Positive in December 2021.
INCALL/OUTCALL
→ CAN YOU COME TO MY HOTEL?
→ CAN YOU COME TO MY PRIVATE RESIDENCE/HOME?
→ WHERE CAN I SEE YOU?
→ WHERE DO YOU STAY WHEN ON A CITY TOUR?
Unfortunately I am not offering an OUTCALL service.
To be able to offer the best out of me, I need to feel safe, grounded and well prepared. I am also working with a specific intimate set-up and the massage is happening on the floor exclusively (never on the bed). I have very beautiful and discreet place in the center of Helsinki carefully designed for this kind of wellbeing and that is the only place I am hosting my clients when in Helsinki.
When traveling around Finland visiting my favorite cities; a CITY TOUR, I am carrying the most important equipment with me, travel size futon included and I am working exclusively at carefully selected discreet apartments in the center of my favorite cities. I am always trying to make sure that I'll be able to create the intimate atmosphere there too, as a great set-up is a half of the success and it is the only way I can fully immerse myself into the session.
DISCRETION POLICY
- from me personally as Bardot
My reputation is very important to me. I am confidential person. Discretion is one thing I handle with utmost sincerity. Anything you choose to share is safe with me and I will never disclose any kind of information that I am given or that I am exposed to during our meeting. And I ask you to please do the same. This includes no posting any of private information in reviews whatsoever and extends to no sharing of any information I have entrusted you with with other providers, even if in good faith. I deeply believe trust creates space to float freely.
Rest assured that safety and privacy for both of us are my utmost priorities. In general, my policy is to take all necessary measures to keep our communication secure and our time together private. Even my place has been chosen very carefully to be able to avoid curious neighbors and such. You have three entrances to choose from, it is a very busy road and building so no "eyes on strangers" almost guaranteed.
If you wish to have the conversation fully encrypted I do recommend to create an e-mail account with ProtonMail, as e-mails sent from a ProtonMail account to mine Proton E-mail will be fully encrypted.
Deposits are made by a bank transfer to my business bank account. On your bank statement, the transaction shown is to a discreet business name with no connection to my presence as Bardot.
If we bump into each other outside of a booking (I reside in Helsinki), then I always assume that you may not be on your own - and to behave as if we have never met. I hope it's alright to ask the same of you, and also to respect my decision to keep my legal name private.
Any details of our meeting are only ever seen by me. I will never share your information with third parties personally, with one exception; each invoice is issued on your name I've been provided with and the name will be seen by my accountant.
I will never call you neither contact you if you won't give me a consent to do so - Newsletter subscription or City Tour/Travel Plans info.
PRIVACY POLICY
- from the website provider and third parties
My website; HelsinkiBardot.com is hosted on the Wix.com platform.
The site and myself considers internet user privacy and data protection to be of paramount importance.
The Site is committed to safeguarding the privacy of its website users.
Wix.com provides me with the online platform that allows me to introduce my services to you. Your data may be stored through Wix.com’s data storage, databases and the general Wix.com applications. They store your data on secure servers behind a firewall. You can read how they treat your data in full version here.
The Site utilizes systems that are designed to prevent unauthorized access to any personal data you may submit on the Site. The Site maintains data accuracy and guarantees the correct use of the information under this statement. The systems used at The Site comply with the latest security standards and include necessary electronic, physical, and managerial procedures, which help to protect the information collected online and to ensure and guarantee its correct and safe use. Please note though that users provide the information at their own risk.
The use of The Site does not require any personal information when you visit the site. Should you wish to provide your personal details during an enquiry any information you provide to The Site will be protected from unauthorized access. The details below state the exact way in which information practices are handled below;
WHAT TYPE OF INFORMATION THE SITE COLLECT?
The Site receive, collect and store any information you enter (including all personally identifiable information) or provide me in any other way. In addition, it collects the Internet protocol (IP) address used to connect your computer to the Internet. It may use software tools to measure and collect session information, including page response times, length of visits to certain pages, page interaction information, and methods used to browse away from the page.
HOW THE SITE COLLECT INFORMATION?
When you subscribe to my Newsletter, fill in a Testimony Form or an Online Booking Form on my website, as part of the process, The Site collect personal information you give me. By Personal Information The Site refers to a visitor’s name, e-mail address and any other information the visitor deems fit to provide. Personal Information can be gathered as named previously; via a Testimony Form, an Online Booking Form and a Newsletter Form. Under no circumstances will any Personal Information be used for anything other than the reason it has been submitted for.
COMMUNICATION WITH YOU
The Site will contact you regarding your enquiry; it may send an automatic Booking, Testimony and Newsletter confirmation e-mails right after your filled in the application; once only. If you have subscribed to my Newsletter, you will be receiving mails, usually no more than once a month. I may contact you personally via email only. Contact via any other way will be discussed in advance; if you give me the permission to contact you via WhatsApp, I will do so at the time you allowed me to.
EXTERNAL WEBSITE LINKS AND THIRD PARTIES
Links located at the Site may be TO and FROM other internet sites, including but not limited to the sites affiliated to the Site. The Site does not hold any responsibility for the privacy policies or content of all the other websites that it may link to. The Site encourages you to review the Privacy Policy and Terms of Use of any Third Party company it may link to – prior to deciding to submit your personal information on other such sites, WhatsApp included.
RIGHT TO AMEND MY PRIVACY STATEMENT
The Site reserves the right to amend this Privacy Policy at any time. Changes shall be effective right upon posting up on The Site. Last updated July 2022.
GDPR AND HOW CAN YOU WITHDRAW FROM MY SITE CONSENT?
The EU General Data Protection Regulation (GDPR) is a data privacy regulation to protect all EU citizens’ data. It gives visitors of this site, among other requirements, the right to receive or delete all their personal data.
If you have any questions or concerns about this Privacy Policy Statement, if you don’t want me to process your data anymore or if you would like to: access, correct, amend or delete any personal information I have about you, you are invited to contact me at email: I can provide you with a copy of your data or I can permanently delete your data.
TANTRA MASSAGE very briefly explained
Tantric Massage is a special type of massage that uses energy and chakras (a center of energy in the body, according to Indian belief) to relax the person into the state of feeling that physical boundaries have dissolved. It's a worship and a touch for body and soul. The Original Tantra Massage is much more than "just" a massage - it is a sensual whole body ritual that consciously and naturally includes the intimate area as part of the body. The goal of the Tantra Massage is not the orgasm neither the ejaculation but to please the receiver and to achieve orgasmic waves through the whole body.
BODY TO BODY MASSAGE very briefly explained
Body To Body Massage is a kind of a sensual massage that may or may not be erotic. This massage makes direct contact with a complete stranger. Naked skin to naked skin experience with safe space to be free of feeling shame, guilt, fear or lack of self confidence. This massage does not have to be performed naked at all, two bodies lying on top of each other is enough to feel its powerful effect. It has been proven scientifically that a Body To Body Massage brings two bodies in contact which helps to release of endorphins into the main bloodstream that helps in alleviating the stress levels, heals naturally, and treats chronic pain at the same time.
LINGAM MASSAGE very briefly explained
Lingam is the Sanskrit word for penis and loosely translates to "wand of light", that represents the God Shiva, one of the main deities of Hinduism. In Tantra philosophy, we approach the lingam from a place of the utmost love and respect, the same way we approach the yoni (vagina). Lingam Massage it's a beautiful form of penis worship. Someone could say a fancy name for a hand job; but it's done with more thoughtfulness, respect, care, and desire to bring selfless pleasure to the receiver. The process of a Lingam Massage is designed to combine feelings of well-being with deep relaxation. It helps the receiver to let go of pent-up stress related to relationship or self-esteem issues, including those related to their sexuality.
SHIATSU MASSAGE very briefly explained
Shiatsu is a form of therapeutic bodywork from Japan based on traditional Chinese medicine. It uses kneading, pressing, soothing, tapping, and stretching techniques and is performed without oils through light, comfortable clothing. Shiatsu session is done on the floor, with the client lying on a comfortable mat. In addition to being a deeply relaxing experience that helps relieve stress it contributes to a true wellbeing.
IS THERE ANY OTHER QUESTION ON YOUR MIND?
I've been truly trying to cover any of your potential questions or concerns.
First, please make sure you have read my website in its entirety. All information can be found here.
If you have any additional questions, anything I can help you with or anything you would like to discuss about the potential meeting, do not hesitate to reach me out via WhatsApp or an E-mail address.
I'll be looking forward to hearing from you :)